Dr. Jayne Dabu's Practice for Self Love Kindness

Dr. Jayne Dabu's Practice for Self Love Kindness

Doctor Jayne here – how we think and talk to ourselves matters! Being mindful of our inner dialogue means validating the thoughts, beliefs, desires that are important to us - it's like honoring who we truly are. So let's take a moment today to acknowledge ourselves with kindness and respect - because in doing so, we'll embrace all that makes us unique!

Instead of suppressing our feelings and pain, we actively recognize what we're feeling in order to nip any potential issues in the bud. By being proactive with managing emotions, it can help keep us healthy both mentally and physically – long-term!

Self-kindness is important in both our personal and professional lives. Show yourself some love by taking mindful moments to be aware of yourself, take responsibility for your words/actions, nourish yourself with acts of self care (like investing in hobbies you enjoy or pampering yourself!), show gratitude towards the positive things around us and practice kindness through random acts - not just other people but also ourselves! 

Let's cultivate an internal voice that speaks kindly rather than criticizing; reflect each day on how we can improve upon our attitude and gradually create better habits from it.

Cultivate a mindset of growth. 

Forgive yourself often.

Let go of resentments, let go of past mistakes. 

Accept and love your body. 

Fall in love with yourself. Not to the point of arrogance or narcissism but a healthy dose of self love is a necessity. 

Take a moment to appreciate yourself when you achieve something, big or small - after all, success is worth celebrating! Start your day off with some positive self-talk and carve out dedicated ‘me time’ each week. Give yourself the recognition you deserve for being awesome!

Taking care of yourself is one of the most important investments you can make. Why not write your own love letter, showing appreciation for all that you are? Stand tall in self-confidence and discover healthy ways to cope with stress or anxiety before they become too great a burden. 

Don't forget about mental health. If talking helps, reach out to friends—or even professionals who specialize in counseling and therapy! Investing time into your wellbeing will pay off dividends now...and over the long run.

Grow in your spirituality. It's time to take control and make the most of your life! Surround yourself with people who share a positive attitude towards growth, let go of anything that doesn't serve you or benefit your journey, use every moment wisely by giving yourself ample rest for body and mind recharge. Value not just others but also YOURSELF - embrace happiness as well as contentment in being simply 'you'. Self-kindness is so important: be kinder to yourself because mistakes are inevitable during this learning process; trust in self forgiveness & progress on becoming the best version of you possible.
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